Why my daughter
will be a strong women
I found the below
article interesting article from link, loved it because even I had
similar view. I changed few words and added two more points.
I always wanted to
raise a girl child and the wish is now true. Not just that she will love me
back when I am old, but she changes the world I am living in, she makes me
stronger women, she makes me feel I am beautiful , she reminds me I am a
queen and yes she will talk back and stand for her rights. I am
minding my language, my cleanliness, my dressing, my cooking,
and my beauty because daughters are the strongest reflection of moms.
You already a brave and active little lady achieving all milestones earlier as
I feel.
Dear Daughter,
1. LOOK FOR
SWORD NOT KNIGHT
“Self Help is
the best help”
Conquer your fears
and problems on your own. Being dependent even on your own soul mate brings
down your confidence. The lesson learnt by me. Start with simple things. Do
your own shopping, pay your bills, own a house. Boost your confidence and live
a life without fear.
Every man and women
has their own priorities to meet. When picking your sword is easier don’t wait
for a knight.
2. DON’T BE
A SLAVE TO YOUR BEAUTY
“A Beautiful
women should break her mirror early “ – Baltasar Gragian
You have nobody to
impress in the world except yourself. Women’s body and beauty, goes through lot
of changes at different stages. When it does, be ready to love even more. It has
the magic to grow a whole new life inside it.
Let go off the
feeling “do I look good?”. Start feeling I look gorgeous in my own
skin. Wear comfortable cloths rather the ones you struggle to get it. Get
yourself more time , more money, be punctual, less stress, more comfortable ,
less clutter and discover whole new and happier you.
3. READ
YOUR OWN OATH
1. I will not let
others criticize me
2. I will stand
for my rights
3. I will be the
controller of my life
4. I will not beg
anybody to be part of my life
5. I
make my own mistake and learn from it
6. I don’t apologies
for other’s mistake
7. I will say NO
sometimes
8. I will choose to be
with someone or without
9. I will do something
only if that’s making me happy
10. I will not live
materialistic life
4. WEAR
YOUR CROWN
You are unique and
one only piece in the entire world. Don’t beat and pull yourself down for
other’s judgement. Comparing a fish and monkey in a tree climbing race is
stupid. Don’t be
disappointed by comparing your real with others highlight reel. You are not
princess, you are the queen of your life. Chin up, else the crown will
slip. Crown is not just beauty, it’s for courage, determination and
discipline. Remember that and adjust your crown and remember from where you
come when something pulls you down.
5. GET OUT
OF THE COMFORTABLE ZONE
“Do one thing
that threatens you every day”
The finest
experience you get through this will make you unstoppable. The better place to
learn is outside your comfort zone. Make a list of things that exits you, mark
a deadline and conquered
Learn to benefit
the power of the confidence. It may or may not bring success, but it gives all
the power to face the reality.
Not everything goes
as planned, be ready to accept what comes on your way and mold it as you want.
Be daring. A stone can be an obstacle or a stepping stone.
6. RESPECT AND BE PATIENCE
Respect and be
patience to others but if you feel that you are under estimated before male. Be
brave and challenge your rights. I m not meaning to argue but you will face
more people who will not understand your view point and scream to show that as
if they are doing right. But be as polite and you can stand by your point. If
still they talking crap just walk thinking they are illiterate need more
maturity. Never use swearing words under any cost even if a person has done a
mistake. Words spilled from mouth cannot be taken back later. You will regret
for it. Let them realise their mistake. Silence is a source of great
strength. Don't waste words on people who deserve your silence. Sometimes the
most powerful thing you can say is nothing at all. The only way to be
near to God is when you control your anger. There is nonsensical saying in
Tamil " Kovam irukkum idam kunam irukum" is that only for Male? Never
know or no proven stories.There is also saying in Tamil "Patience will
rule the world".
7. TRUST IN GOD
Believe in God.
Pray and love him in your own style. No rule and rituals in following it is
unconditional, no boundary. Don't follow any set procedures as there is no set
procedures by god , they are created sinful human being according to their
preference. If you dint follow that procedure and slightly if there is any
change then it creates Negative energy inside you that is really very bad.
Remember " No poison can kill a Positive thinker and no medicine
can cure a Negative thinker" Prayers are not achieved without
action and hard work. Do your best the return will be received at right time.
I.e. You set your target then God will do benchmark.
